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No matter how graphic or stimulating your fantasies are, they may be disappointing or even embarassing when acted out. My sometimes dangerous No-Guts-No-Glory attitude towards sexual experimentation insists that you approach this possibly lucky superior ASAP.

Some considerations before your approach: Has your object of lust given you any indication of interest? It doesn’t seem like he or she has, so you may want to find out about their partners, children, mental problems, etc. Depending on the person, they may either be amused and take the attraction as a compliment, turn you down quickly, or slap you around a bit, or so you may hope.

However, you may need to do some research before your declaring your passionate lust for him or her.

If you have never engaged in an act of bondage or discipline involving masochism or sadism, I would not reccomend exploring this with your unsuspecting authority figure. It is quite a strange and sometimes unnerving experience to dominate or be submissive in an act of S&M. I would have to say it’s a rather acquired taste, and there are plenty of people in your area to practice with.

It is always a bad idea to engage in sexual relations with a co-worker. I can safely say that I boldly made this mistake not once, but twice within an eight month span. Both situations ended tragically, resulting in the loss of jobs for both of my co-workers.

Furthermore, there are a set of training rules, toys, techniques, and a glossary of terms you need to become accustomed with before I’d advise a conference with your superior, which can be found online easily.

Bottom line is, be careful what you start. Besides complicating your currently platonic relationship, jumping into a new type of sex act without proper preparation can be a bad idea. So read up, choose well, and good luck!

Disclaimer: Nick Bell has aspirations of being a sexpert but no professional training. To submit a comment or question, e-mail it to oracle@hamline.edu or drop it off at the Oracle office (DS 106).